The Bacherolette - What a Waste!

Once again sorry I am behind. Not only was I behind on blog posts but also on my shows.

I didn't get to watch Monday nights episode until last night! Before I get into my favorites, I have lots to say about Ashley.

♥ Her insecurity did not bother me so much last year, but golly... girl get with it.

The whole ' do these guys really want to be here' thing is driving me insane. If they didn't then they would have walked out like the one who you are dotting over...

She's ticking me off how she's eliminating men because she feels they might not be ready rather based on her emotions. Example: Ben C. & the guy who announced he was finally ready to date after this late wife. She isn't going to find the real thing.

♥ If I hear Bentley's name one more time... Well I know I'm going to due to the preview of next week. I'm sick of him already. Did I miss something? I knew from beginning he was a Casanova, but really? What exactly was it she fell for? I know us women have a thing for going for the bad boys and when Michelle called her and told her about him, maybe that was a go getter thing, I don't know. Am I the ONLY one who wished Chris Harrison would show her what he said about her? She is making herself out to be in idiot. She's going to screw it all up next week. Honestly, I hope some men walk out on here. I really do. Bentley left you sweetie. Think back to Emily, she didn't leave Brad for her daughter who she I'm sure missed very much. Geez, get with it. I'm starting to think this season is a waste.

♥ What was she thinking when she had the men fight? I mean really? You have 11 men dotting over you, fighting for your love and you are going to put them in a rink, to physically fight... and then live together? I get the whole "I wanna MAN" vibe, but fighting? Why not build something? or an obstacle course? I've NEVER been a fan on fighting. I think it lowers a man [under one exception, unless he is defending himself, family, or someone]. I was SO mad when I was watching this. I was really really upset for Ames. Aaron isn't a fan of Ames. He thinks he's a bit feminine so he knew it was going to be him. I felt SO very bad for Ames. Even though she felt pretty bad, I was still so upset with her. I really loved Ames' come back when she asked what the doctors said and his rules, "They said I was in Love." That got me♥

♥ I was SO pissed off, like seriously... when she dismissed Ben C. from the two man date.
Seriously, if you are going to let a man go just.like.that because of another mans words...
you are not ready for commitment. No way. She did NOT even ask or give Ben C a chance.
Personally, it would have been a complete turn off if a guy tried to tell me about one of the other men.  I am a big girl, I can make my own decisions. I could see the madness in Ben C.'s face. Of course, I did not blame him. However, I did stop and think maybe the TV producers didn't show us everything as they did Michelle from last season. But still... they way she dismissed him, not cool. I was chewing her out behind the screen. I really like William on their first date, REALLY. But no, as he described himself at dinner, he is just a boy. Not a man and not ready for this. Yuck! I was surprised Ashley was able to make that decision by herself. Thumbs up for sending him home!

♥ VERY confused on why she sent Nick home. Maybe I missed something again. I personally like Nick. Maybe she didn't have any chemistry with him but then again I don't recall there ever being a lot of time with him. I wanted smiley to go. I think he is adorable, but he seems a bit goofy to me. I had a feeling he would be chosen to stay.

My favorite guys

Ben F.
Ohh Laa laa...
He didn't catch my eye right off, however... He's my favorite.
Total package♥I think the problem with a lot of these couples not making it once they get into the real world of dating & relationships is not knowing everyday is not all peaches & cream. You have your boring days, your over the top fun days, casual days and I'm so in love with you days. It happens, it's life. The dates these people go on are not your everyday, dinner and a movie dates. So, I believe that's why they don't work. Love [& Life with Love] is not a fairytale movie [or reality show

That being said, I loved Ben F. & Ashley's date. It was real, casual, lots of communication and it seemed fun. I loved how he wasn't over the top all over her. I'm just not that way. I thought them really wanting to kiss in front of the temple  but couldn't was pretty sexy.  That want to, can't have thing is always good for beginnings.

JP

There's still something about him. His personality out shines anything else for me. No offense to him, but there are some really HOTT men this year.
Sometimes JP can seem too much, but in reality I think he just really has feelings for Ashley.I love how he can already read her and seems concerned for her thoughts and emotions.

Next fella isn't a favorite, but he definitely stood out last night!
Constantine
It's more of a respect thing for me.
[for now...]
This guy has not really stood out to me until last night. What I hate more is [for example] the guy [don't know his name] who cried after being cut the very first rose ceremony. Due, why are you crying? You said two words to her and now you're saying "I think she could have been my wife". You just met her. Ugh.
-What I loved about Constantine was he said his TRUE thoughts [which I've never heard before in any other person Well... maybe vampire lady from last season]. Some where a long the lines of; Yes I like you. I'm totally digging you but I don't know if I love you or think you will be my wife because we haven't had that much time together. I look forward to seeing more of him. Maybe I could really get to like him but right now I just like the fact that he isn't fooling her.

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Over all, I had mixed emotions about Mondays show.
I will say, if I hadn't seen Ashley on last years show I would just really not have
hopes for her. But I do. I hope she gets over this Bentley thing and doesn't ruin it next week. It shows a lot of tears [expected] and honestly, I hope Bentley tells her flat out.
She is on THE BACHELORETTE. SO many woman want her position and she's stuck on a two week crush. She really needs to just get over her insecurities and let go and L.O.V.E. I mean that IS what she is here for. I kind of feel she may be a waste of this years show.