Showing posts with label Life.. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Life.. Show all posts

Thursday, May 3, 2012

That time when I got a Physic Reading

It was August 22, 2010. {remember that date}
A Saturday Night out with two friends.
We had a lot of catching up to do. That's an understatement.
Dinner arrangements at The Oyster Bar where we sat for 2.5 hours, "catching up".
Decided to walk River Street trying to figure out what the next step was.
That's when we saw....

That's when I heard, "Ohh let's do it."
{Keturah was having troubles in her relationship so she was all in}
I never thought anything bad & Dee didn't really care.
We walked up the steps, into the building and that's when we looked frightened.
How did we want our reading?
Uhhhhh, I don't know. What's the difference?
Palm reading was just to tell us the present, cost $30.
Card reading was to tell us past, present & future, cost $30.
There was a 30 minute wait.
Sylvaia said to us, "If you come back in 30 minutes I'll give it to you for $25."
Sure Thang!
For the next 30 minutes we grew bubbles in our tummy.
Is this a bad thing? Do I really believe in this? Nope. I don't.
Or I don't think I do.
I remember saying, "Which one of us is gonna either cry or get freaked out?"
We laughed.

{30 minutes later}

She only takes two in a room at a time.
Keturah and Dee went in first.
I ain't gonna lie. I was pretty nervous by this point.
The only person I had ever known to get a physic reading was Aarons Aunt...
and she was told two things; Someone in her family will have twins and  she saw a lot of black which resembled death. The reason she went in in the first place because she just lost her 9 month old to sids.
I knew that if either of them came out looking NOT normal, I was out.
But they didn't.
My turn next.
Keturah came in with me.
I remember the room being a blue-like shade.
It was dark.
Sylvia told me to shuffle the cards.
In which I am the worlds worst shuffler.
Not to mention there was very few.
I shuffled and set them down.
As she looked at me in quiet she turned over a card and began.
Then she'd turn over another card and tell more.
Again and again and again.

This is how it went.

First card

There is a woman who is very close to you who you are very concerned about.
{this is when I busted out crying}  Yes.
Who is it?
{not wanting to say it out loud, looking at Keturah for the "okay"}
My Mom.
She's been sick.
Yes.
She was diagnosed but they cleared her.
Yes.
She needs to get a second opinion.
{totally freaked out} Can we move on to the next one?

She turns a card{s}

There are two men in your life that seem to always bring you confusion.
{confused I was} I shook my head no as my eyebrows scrunched.
{Remember in our story where I said there was another guy, well I had broken it off that February. Well this is what Keturah was thinking as she gave me the grin that meant questioning... I was insulted. Then again asked her to move along}

Next Card

I see a male death in your family
{as I look at Keturah thinking... no.}
No I haven't had any deaths in my family.
{Keturah says, what about Aaron's granddaddy?}
Yeah, my boyfriends Great Grandfather just pasted away, could that be it?
It's in your family. 
I don't know, I haven't had any male deaths in my family.
Another Card

 You are thinking about changing jobs, don't - you will be successful.
{smiles across the room to Keturah giving her a Hell-Yes look}

She turns a card

I see two babies in your future...
Awwe Shucks {as I smile from ear to ear}
boys...

... One Pregnancy.
{.... huh? and I look at Keturah who picked it up immediately}
TWINS! - Keturah
Wait, what? Twins? {totally floored}
{she smiles}

+ time out +
really, there was only ONE thing I wanted to know whether I believed in this or not. ONE thing I wanted to hear from her....

... So do you see marriage in my future?
Be Patient, he doesn't like to be rushed.
{Well duh! I did NOT want to hear that.. I wanted answers}
Can you tell me like, when?
{she smiles at me}
I can tell you that it's more than a year but not two years.
{Yay! I can deal with that. All I could do was smile because she just gave me hope}

Then she says -
Your boyfriend, tell me about him.
And really, I don't remember what I said. I could've have been much because there wasn't a lot of time before she turned the next card.

Another card is turned

There is a woman in his life who is having a difficult time of letting go...
{back to thinking an old fling or something...}
No.
His Mom - Keturah
Oh yeah, definitely his mom.
She's going to be just fine.


... And then we were done.

All three of us gathered up.
Sat by the river.
Discussed what the heck just happened.
And realized....
Everything she just touched on, was pretty much what we all {caught up on} at dinner.
Or at least the subjects of the matter.
Whoa.

But what about future? The cards read the past, present and the future.
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Now VS. Then

Woman who I am concerned about -
that was present at the time and truthfully it was dead on the spot. She nailed it which is why I about emotional as soon as she said those words. I am always nervous about my moms health because it's always whack.

Two men who I am confused about -
It dawned on my when we were discussing everything that it had to be my two dads.
Being I've been planning my wedding long before I got engaged, I've always tossed up the matter of how I will handle this situation. Who does what without hurting anyone. When that time came, yes it was still sticky but we made it through.

Male Death in my family-
I never really thought about that night and what Sylvia said too much, unless I was joking about it with a girlfriend. I mean, twins... really? Well, it really really hit me when in October I had family down from NY, well ALL my family was down from every where but I stayed up late one night catching up with my three cousins talking about... everything.
My night with Physic came up and I started to tell them how it went down...
when I got to this part I stopped... I was speechless.  The reason my entire family was in town was because my Uncle took his life October 15th.

Changing Jobs -
If you didn't read yesterdays post, maybe you should.
{which is why I am writing this down because if I have twins... Oh goodness}

Twins -
... not yet. Never been pregnant.

When am I getting married -
August 2010 was the day I went. December 2010 was when I got engaged...
I planned a wedding for 8 months - Got married 11 days after my one year of visiting Sylvia. {More than a year, but not two years}

The woman in his life -
Totally his Mom. Aaron is such a Mommas boy, and his Mom and I clashed the year we moved in together. She REALLY struggled with this, and now ... today, she is okay. No awkward-ness when it comes to me & her. We love each other LOTS and actually have a wonderful relationship.

Crazy right?
So. Whatcha think? Have you had any experiences with a physic reading?

{lots of smiles and giggles were passed}

Friday, January 13, 2012

If you are reading this...

 then I ask you to stop what you are doing &

Peace for a sweet little boy, Tripp Roth.


I do not ask that you read his story today, because I'd rather you use your
time to stop and pray for him. His amazing mother, Courtney
mentioned that she feels his life on earth is coming to an end soon but knows he will be rejoiced in heavens with our God almighty where there is no harm or pain. Tripp is incredibly strong & battling the worst disease I could ever imagine.
Most people haven't ever heard of it {including myself} until they've read his story.
Courtney shares his excruciating story in hopes to one day someone being able to maintain this disease or find a cure.

Tripp is so strong, stronger than most men I know.
He absolutely loves Elmo with all his heart. Courtney says Elmo is Tripp's best friend. He holds Elmo in his hand day in & out up until a few days ago.  Elmo even wrote his own song just for his biggest fan!
Tripp has the most incredible talent that I have ever seen. He brings a smile to my face and so much joy to my heart, he plays the drums. Watch him play


Friends, I ask for your prayers to make Tripp as comfortable as possible.
As his mother asks, 

Thank you.


All of these pictures are pictures captured from
"Ebing" A Mommy, Courtney's blog.


Wednesday, August 24, 2011

Life AFTER the wedding: Q's & A's

With only 10 days left, I'm so over wedding planning. I'm stress free & feel very relaxed. Tired but that comes with it. Aaron and I are both completely ready & more ready for the celebration between our marriage with our friends & family. We are worn out & ready for normal life to take place again. Speaking of normal life? What is it?
 Most everyone I've ever talked to whether it be someone close or not
the answer to the number 1 question after the wedding is, "So, how's married life?". The answer is usually "It feels the same. Just a different name." Unless of course you did not live together prior to. Then things are more than likely different.

I believe nothing will change for Aaron and I because we have lived together for a while and already have experienced the trying times & adjustments. However, there are things I want to improve as a wife for not only him but for myself too. I have been asked various questions here lately so I'm gonna throw them out there and share my answers.

Do you & Aaron plan on having joint bank accounts?
This is a funny question. As of right now, we both have our personal accounts & then
we share one joint account. I have always assumed when we got married we would cancel out personal accounts and keep just one. However, during the counseling with our preacher
one of the topics were finances. He asked how we handled our finances and if there ever were issues. Aaron and I both looked at each other and agreed that money or any kind of finances were ever a problem. Therefore, after the session we discussed how we would work our finances. Again, I assumed one account because that is what married people do. He disagreed.
I was a little confused because I felt as if I was pushed back a little. But he made sense.
Our preacher stated that finance & money situations are the #1 reason for fights & divorce. Being we have never had a fight about money I thought we'd be fine. Well Aaron's point is quote "Why would we change it up? I keep nothing from you & you keep nothing from me. If I purchase something, you see it. We've never had a fight about finances so why would we do something different especially being it's the #1 cause of divorce? You have my passwords & I know yours so there is nothing weird about it" It still took me time to completely be okay with it. but yes, he is completely right. ONE- Aaron is the leader of the household. I want both of us to always make decisions together but him being the final say so. TWO- he made all the sense in the world. Even if "that's what married couples do", why would be change anything because we've never had an issue before. '
{What works for you in your relationship?}

Babies... soon?
This is a fun question. Back in January, Aaron informed me he was ready to be a daddy after the wedding. {Remember THIS post} Well.... a lot has happened since then. To be honest, at first I was just not on the same level. Then once we really discussed our five year plan things changed a little. We actually talked it up to after the wedding we'd let God take control. Then the topic of lifestyle with children came up.  Aaron and I both agreed it would be best if I stayed at home. My job now leaves me coming home at 6:30. By the time I do dinner {which Aaron helps often} our children will be ready for bed. That leaves me no time with them. We figured out our finances and being we are ALMOST  debt free {not yet} we would not be able to afford it. So we pushed children back until early next year. I'm not done. A few months ago, Aaron and I were settling down to watch a movie one night and we were cutting up, laughing hysterically, picking with each other over this blanket. It sounds lame but it was great. Almost as if we were teenagers in high school again. We laughed for hours. The next day that's all I could think about. So at dinner I brought up children. We both agreed that life moves so fast. This year has flown by like crazy.  We've been together for almost 11 years and in those 11 years we've had LOTS growing stages & priority changes; working through them was tough at times. Life now... we are in hog heaven. We are enjoying the nights with each other & our alone time so much more than ever before. Our relationship feels very strong... one more year wouldn't hurt to wait for kids because when they come {life will be amazing} we won't be able to play fight over a blanket or better yet have alone time on the couch enjoying a TV time. It will be kids kids kids and that's okay but we agreed that we want to enjoy our high point as much as possible before it's taken away.  So, 2013 is our year {unless the Lord thinks different} to start trying for little ones.
2012 is for us. I can't wait.

What do you plan on changing anything after the wedding?
Here is where my hope to be the best wife takes place. I don't want much to change between the two of us. As I explained in the question before, things are really great. But there are things or changes I long for. I want to start getting up with him. Every night before bed I set the alarm for 5:45am in order for him to leave by 6:15am. I lay his uniform out and make sure he is all prepared for the next work day. On the days when he wakes up late {not very often}, I too jump up and head for the deodorant & get his tooth brush ready & make sure his boots are ready for his feet... I then go back to bed. I get up at 6:30am. That isn't very long after he leaves.
What I want is for the both of us to get up together {ME} and I'm not much of a breakfast chef
but have coffee together or maybe a bowl of cereal. I think breakfast is a very important time of the day because it the start. This is defintely something I want to do differently & work on.
This is my plan.
Also, start making weekly dinner menus. I lived by this before our engagement... planning had taken a toll on our life so I will be back to this also. We've had enough pizza delievery nights.
I will be using this to help organize my meal plan & grocery shopping trips.

{ONE week from today is the first day of our wedding weekend! Boy Oh boy... I can't wait}
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Wedding Planning...

I'm so over it! I made my last 'list of things to do' and there are quite a few, mainly smaller things. I just can't get motivated. I'm just ready for the day to come. I feel very relaxed & I'm actually sleeping. That's a BIG improvement.



Here are a few things I still have to do:

* Make my Reception sign
* Wrap up my Out of Town Guest bags
& Hotel bags
* A few touch ups on come boutonnieres
* Pick my dress {Tomorrow}
* Meet with our DJ {next week}
* Boudoir Photo shoot {yes, I'm doing these}
* Labels for the girls jewelry {making them to fit our wedding look}
* a gift for our wedding director
 * Send thank you cards to the ladies for the bachelorette party
* Meet with our preacher to discuss how everything will go
* Manicure / Pedicure {Next week with the ladies}
*Lingerie Shower {Saturday}
* Pack Honeymoon Bag
*Pack Wedding Day Bag
* Pack 'day of rehearsal' items
*Pick up Tux {Next Week}
* Get Hair done
*Finish my Table Numbers.
*Finish my letters to each of my bridesmaids.
* Oh I FINALLY am set & stone on my hairstyle for the wedding.
definitely the hardest decision YET!
[CLEAN MY HOUSE]
it's by far horrific!

{children would be defined as Aaron and myself}


I think that's about it!

Happy Wednesday!!!